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Why Men Marry Bitches

The topic arose during a conversation with a young woman in her early twenties, who is the child of a single parent and is pursuing her dream of gaining admission to a renowned university in Pakistan. During our midnight call, she expressed a strong sentiment, stating that " all boys are dogs. "   After listening to her point of view, I reflected on why we, as men, often find ourselves attracted to women. Is it due to their physical beauty, sexual allure, or perhaps it is simply a natural inclination?   From a certain perspective, I am initially attracted by a woman's physical appearance and shape. However, while these feelings may not last, they do ignite my exotic instincts. Over time, I have come to appreciate deeper qualities, such as her intelligence, kindness, and sense of humor. These attributes sustain a more meaningful connection and contribute to a lasting and fulfilling relationship.   Love has been a central theme in human existence for eras, shaping t...

Sufi Soul Abu Madyan

True Love is to forget oneself and remember only the Beloved.    One of the most well-regarded figures in the olden times of Sufism. Abu Madyan Shu'ayb, a name that resonates with deep spiritual significance, was a pioneering Sufi spiritual from Andalusia. Born in 1126 in the small town of Cantillana near Seville, Spain. Hazrat Abu Madyan’s journey from a young seeker of knowledge to a revered Sufi master has left an indelible mark on the history of Islamic spirituality. Known for his deep spirituality and ascetic practices, influenced the development of Sufism in the Maghreb and the broader Islamic world. Hazrat Abu Madyan teachings, enlightening the purification of the soul and the pursuit of divine love; and shaped the spiritual practices of uncountable followers across the Islamic world. Spiritual Journey: Hazarat Abu Madayn spiritual expedition took him to the Maghreb and the Middle East, where he met influential Sufi Teachers. These meetings enriched his sp...

Me , I And The Beloved

Beloved I stood exposed, uncivilized,  Encountered life's lows and highs, criticized,  Faced falls from family, friends, and foes,  Morality as tarnished as sly foxes. Since childhood my life has molded in diverse  ways,  Since childhood, I wasn’t prepared mentally or physically for these ways,  Although I was as ambitious as my dreams were to reach stars,  Although I was guided by the best advisors, mentors and preservers,  Although I was unable to predict future or drive my self on the instructed Path as do by obedient sailors,  Uncertainty, embraced me, annoyed me,  Brokenhearted Me, too Me,  Everyday I told to my infidel self,  Everything will be changed , hope my self In the path of love, I saw a beautiful Face,  In the middle life , I was touched by her,  Sometimes ice , sometimes fire; Untouchable, she was Unbreakable, she was Uncontroversial, she was  Unchangeable, she was I tried to be her best friend, s...

Great Talents Mature Late

  I do not cease swimming in the seas of love, Rising with the wave, then descending; Now the wave sustains me, and then I sink beneath it; love bears me away where there is no longer any shore. Let me start this piece of writing with famous Rumi saying that '' The Result of my life is no more than three words: I was Raw, I became Cooked, I was Burnt ''.  One fine morning, I awoke to a bright day and savored a simple breakfast of two half-fried eggs. My work entails the night shift, which means I return home in the late morning hours and often retire to sleep after the break of dawn. This routine has been my constant companion for the past five years, an unbroken cycle in the ebb and flow of life. In the relentless pursuit of financial success in the business world, I find myself navigating an array of challenges that span from the home front to the office. At home, I must carry the aspirations of my parents, ensuring that their vision remains intact. Simultaneously, I...

Ink & Emotions

  The more I search myself the more I see, That longing for Your love has ruined me; I gaze into the mirror of my heart And though it’s me who looks, It’s You I see ! Her words about him are a masterpiece of passion and intuition, a genuine tribute that captures the kernel of his being. With every stroke of her pen, she paints a vivid portrayal of his character, bringing his virtues and quirks to life on the canvas of her writing. Her gratitude for him shines through in the elegance of her prose and the sincerity of her feelings, leaving no doubt that her words are a frank reflection of her admiration and affection. Her writing is a gift, The one who adored you before I entered your life Perhaps still carries your sorrows deep in her heart, "In the embrace of an unspoken hope, The shores of her dream island may still sparkle, I acknowledge, she's shifted her loyalty to another soul, As daylight graces us, I may not rejoin your gathering, May no solitary sorrow ruin your...

Dervish Thinks

  The Beloved  Love has been a central theme in human existence for as long as humanity itself. It has inspired countless poets, writers, artists, and philosophers throughout history to explore its depths and complexities. One of the most profound and mystical approaches to love can be found in Sufism, a mystical Islamic tradition that explores into the essence of love as a path to Divine joining. The human beings are in continue process to shape history through faith, discipline, unity, strength and emotions, as well much more. Although, the humanoids are connected through beliefs systems, share and differentiate accordingly known as religion. The Essence of Sufism and its Connection with Love and why it is Esoteric?  The Sufis are an ancient spiritual freemasonry whose origins have never been traced or dated; nor do they themselves take much interest in such researches, being content to point out the occurrence of their own way of thought in different regions and p...

Scent of Woman

  Humans have been using scents and perfumes for thousands of years for a variety of reasons, including religious rituals, personal hygiene, and social status. Perfume has played a significant role in many religious traditions and practices throughout history. In Islam, perfume is highly valued and is often used as a way to honor Allah and show respect for others. Muslims are encouraged to wear perfume and to keep themselves clean and well-groomed. They also use perfumed oils and incense during prayer and other religious ceremonies. In Christianity, perfume has been used to anoint the sick and dying, as well as to honor the saints and holy relics. The use of perfumed oils and incense in religious ceremonies dates back to biblical times and continues to be a common practice in many Christian denominations. In Hinduism, perfume is used in a variety of ways, including as an offering to the gods, as a way to purify oneself, and as a way to enhance spiritual awareness. The Egypt...